Just a small reminder that it really is a dog's life, and we just think we're in charge! My son actually thinks this is his bed, but the dog of course, knows better.
Over one year ago, I finished losing seventy pounds. At that time I cleaned out much of my closet. What I have not done (at least not yet) is buy any new clothing. Put simply, I haven’t needed anything. Some time back, I mentioned that I may never need to buy clothing again-as some readers joked at that time, that was surely an exaggeration. Yes and no. While I may see clothing that I WANT in the future, the truth is that my only “mandatory” clothing expenses have to do with planned obsolescence. So far, that has only including what someone once joking referred to as the underwear disintegration effect. Obviously this will change, as my goal is to lose 62 pounds by my 62nd birthday.
Over one year ago, I finished losing seventy pounds. At that time I cleaned out much of my closet. What I have not done (at least not yet) is buy any new clothing. Put simply, I haven’t needed anything. Some time back, I mentioned that I may never need to buy clothing again-as some readers joked at that time, that was surely an exaggeration. Yes and no. While I may see clothing that I WANT in the future, the truth is that my only “mandatory” clothing expenses have to do with planned obsolescence. So far, that has only including what someone once joking referred to as the underwear disintegration effect. Obviously this will change, as my goal is to lose 62 pounds by my 62nd birthday.
In the past, many retirement bloggers have waxed eloquent
regarding the so called experts estimation of the amount needed to live on in
retirement. I, as well as many blogging friends see the minimums as awfully inflated. While there are many reasons one may have lowered or equal costs in retirement, one of the many reasons some
folks live on less in is that they have the “stuff” of life. Much of that stuff is acquired through the
normal paths of life. Sometimes though, it is
worth looking ahead to retirement and making some investment purchases ahead of
time (or in the early years of retirement).
Obviously your ability to anticipate future needs depends on
how much you know about your retirement plans.
I'm also not suggesting that we take money away from retirement savings per se. If you feel fairly confident about future activities or living
situations, it MAY be worth your while and your money to direct some income towards these kinds of
investment purchases. My in laws committed
many years ago to retiring in place. This means that they spent some money on
their home, both making it energy efficient (to lower monthly costs) and preparing
the house for needs later in life.
Before my husband passed away, we were beginning to think
about post working world decisions. We knew we wanted to travel. My husband was a black trail skier, and lived
for golf. He had begun slowly investing in good quality but basic equipment
(especially since were in sporting goods heaven). I did the same. Because we
knew we would be cooking a lot more in retirement (we ate out a bunch when my
son was in high school, we were both working and between the three of us we had
six hobbies each), we bought a few things that would make said cooking
easier and more fun. I’m not
talking restaurant quality, but we knew
a good mixer and such would increase our enjoyment of cooking. We knew we were retiring to different climes, so we would have started developing a "southern United States worth" wardrobe.
For myself, living on a fixed income is much easier and more
enjoyable because for the most part I have both what I need and what I
want. Whether I want to cook or can,
take a road trip tomorrow, work in the yard, or quilt, I rarely need to spend
money except for on so called “consumables”. Mind you, that doesn’t mean that I don’t see
things that I occasionally want to buy-just that those purchases are rarely
required. This means that beyond the so
called monthly bills most of my money is free to spend on the needs/wants of
life-be it groceries, fabric, hotels, or entertainment. It works for me.
And speaking of cooking, tonight was one of those days when I threw everything in the slow cooker. While I wouldn't call minestrone junk soup, it's a very flexible dish. Today I used kidney and canelli beans, lean ground beef, crushed tomatoes, vegetables and lots of broth and seasonings. Add some popovers and there you are. Tomorrow I'll add more vegetables (perhaps spinach) to the second showing-and when I make it next I may add pasta as well.
I shared this post on my paper.li this morning.
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We have found that we have saved a *ton* of money since we retired. I think it helps that we moved to a place with a much lower cost of living also since we moved, we aren't around our friends so there is no "peer pressure" to keep up with he Joneses. We are much happier to have less money and lots of time instead of the reverse.
ReplyDeleteBarbara, I had no idea that you had that paper. I've definitely put it on my list, and thanks so much for including me!
ReplyDeleteWe are in your camp. Spending money on household items is rare. We can live off of much less then we ever thought we could. That has allowed us to be much more conservative with our nest egg then we thought we should be five years ago.
ReplyDeleteThe only danger to this notion? Grandchildren. They are so VERY tempting. ---Time is better then money---Time is better than stuff---I'll just keep repeating that!
We're in the first stages of our easing into retirement.We moved to a smaller house, and our taxes, HOA fees and house insurance all went dramatically down.Also our utility bills. When I worked full time we spent a good portion of the 'extra" money on clothes, gadgets, tools, travel, etc. So, now that I am not working much anymore, I have way less stress and don't "shop" for stress reduction! I have enough clothes to last me till I pass into the next world.
ReplyDeleteWe sold a lot of the extra furniture,dishes, etc in the down size move. I kept (of course!) my good pots and pans, crockpots, and we took the tools with us!
I find that freedom and owning (most of) my own TIME have reduced my desire to travel (escape) or shop or go out to eat.
retirement is looking good.
LOVE your quilts..what a talent!
We're away from home this winter, and I have noticed we're spending differently. I have had one Starbucks coffee in the last 17 days. At home we have a local drive-through espresso stand, and I'd say I drive through five days a week, at least. Here, I'm finding the coffee my husband brews in the morning just fine.
ReplyDeleteWe're also eating out less, because we don't have our usual busy-ness to distract us.
And we're living comfortably in 650 square feet.
I wonder what we'll take home with us by way of new insights and plans.